Rest in Peace, PapPap

March 29, 2011

Rest in Peace, PapPap

Yesterday was my PapPap's funeral. It was a wonderful service to honor a wonderful man. My sister spoke and my grandfather would have been so proud. Here are a few shots of the kids. Oliver kept his tie on the entire day.

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Stefanie Boyce said…

Shannon- I am so sorry for your loss. Oliver looks so handsome in his tie and Waverly looks like a princess with her pretty dress. We just said goodbye to Justin's Grandma. It just stinks saying good-bye.

March 30, 2011 at 1:49 AM

Joanne Huff said…

Hi Shannon,

Both Waverly and Oliver look so adorable all dressed up. It must have been a tough day, but I bet your Pap Pap was so happy you were all there. He sounded like a really neat guy.

Thinking of you a this time of loss, Joanne

March 30, 2011 at 6:44 AM

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